This No-Screentime Until Printable Sheet has been wonderful for our family. When we first started limiting electronics for our kids, we created this free no-screentime sheet. Within a few months, I also added these Swap Chores for Screentime Cards. Together, it was a match made in Heaven!
The combination of these two things was how we started really limiting the time of our kids on electronics. We started a year ago this month. It was tough at first, but now, our kids are rarely on electronics. Our efforts paid off and now the kids’ screentime is minimal. It was the best decision, as our kids are happier, argue less, entertain themselves more and they don’t ask for electronics or say “I’m Bored” when they aren’t being entertained.
I didn’t want our kids to be sitting alone, playing on a device, wasting hours a day in a virtual world… while the real world passes them by.
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I want our kids to BE KIDS. When they are grown, I want them to think back fondly on their childhood and remember the happy, fun times that they had while they were playing together, hanging out with friends, or playing a board game with Mickey & I. While our kids might look back and remember their favorite day of the summer when they were playing ball outback as a family, they certainly won’t remember their best day of television.
Parents Want to Limit Screen Time Among Kids:
Did you know that more than 70% of parents wish they could lessen their child’s screentime use? It may be hard, but it is also an achievable goal (and it is worth the effort). If you don’t want your kids to get sucked into screentime the second that they wake up… give them something else to do first. That was the idea behind this free no screen-time sheet. I wanted to prevent too much screentime use over the summer.
If you want to help your kids avoid non-stop screentime by finding an interested in something else first, this is a great way to do it. Plus, you can save the ‘child electronic use’ for a time when you need it… like a long road trip! They’ll be quiet the entire ride. LOL!
The main idea behind this is to give our kids something “else” to get “lost in.” Sometimes kids just need a little motivation to get started (once our kids head outside to play, they forget about watching a movie or playing on the tablet). If I let them just sit & default to screen-time, it will consume as much time as I allow.
I’d so much rather see them being creative and inventive. I’d rather see them reading, drawing, experimenting, or playing.
How Long Should a Child have Screen Time?
I have read study after study about the child – screentime issue. It is real & it can become very serious. A child addicted to screens is likely to happen when they have unlimited access to mobile phones/cell phones, video games, home theater systems, etc… It has been known to cause health problems in children. According to Psychology Today: “In a new, groundbreaking study published in Preventive Medicine Reports, researchers at San Diego State University suggest that more than one hour per day of screen time for children ages two to seventeen is associated with lower psychological well-being.”
The incline of screen addiction and decline of physical activity is leading to poor mental health for both older and younger kids. “The most significant effects were found among 14- to 17-year-olds whose screen time usage was high, seven or more hours per day. These users were twice as likely to have been diagnosed with depression or anxiety or sought help for a psychological issue in the past year.”
The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that children younger than 2 avoid digital media other than video chatting. They also suggest that children ages 2 to 5 should keep their television viewing (of high-quality children’s programs) to a maximum of one hour a day. (Be sure not to let that one hour be in the evening. The blue light from the screen can prevent your child from being able to fall asleep easily).
On a similar note, the World Health Organization suggests that infants under one-year-old should not be exposed to electronic screens at all. They suggest that children between the ages of two to four should not have more than one hour of sedentary screen time daily.
Gone are the days of the family sharing a basic phone for phone calls. Kids are now being entertained by hours of screen time. Even infant and toddler toys have gone from large blocks and rings to electronic toys that make sounds and have bright lights. By elementary school, a kids phone is often seen in their backpack (which I understand because I think it’s a wonderful way to keep in touch with our children… as long as we are in control of what is happening & when they are using it.)
Ps- A tip to control what our kids are doing on their screens: I have all of our phones set up to require a password before adding any new games or apps. I never give our kids the password for anything. If they want an app (free or not) to play a new game on our way to the beach, they need to ask me & I will type in the password. Everything goes through the parents.
While many of these toys offer a fun new way to teach kids their letters & numbers, it is also setting them up to expect entertainment all of the time and instant gratification (even more so with everything happening so fast thanks to 4G LTE, etc..) Sometimes, it’s best NOT to entertain them. I have seen that when a kid’s bored – they begin to use their imagination more, create more, write more, story-tell more, play more.
My kids have more fun making forts out of boxes & ‘price tags’ out of gift tags than with many of the electronic games out there, but it is easy for them to forget because electronics can grab their attention so quickly. Sometimes they just need a little reminder that these other things are more fun.
How to Limit Screentime for Children:
- Use this No Screentime Until free printable (Click here and I will send you this chart via email) This is a great way to encourage them to run around outside, play on the swingset, play a board game, paint, draw, build or do something ELSE first. Get them involved in another activity before you say yes to screens.
2. Don’t Sugar-Coat it. I am very honest with our kids about screen time and electronic use. I tell them how it can make them feel anxious, upset, grumpy, and just not as happy. I talk about being sedentary vs. physically active. I just tell them the scary truth about electronic use and I lay it all on the table. It has definitely worked because about a month ago when we were going on a 4-hour car trip, our son said: “Mom, I know that being on electronics isn’t good for our brains or our bodies, but can we all download a new car-racing game to play on the way to the beach?”
Ps- another electronic tip to limit screen time: In our family, vacations are electronic-free zones except for one TV that they can watch together. They have to agree on a show, etc… (they usually pick a cooking challenge & they each wait for all of the siblings to be present before they push play since they are all on the same episode.) It’s great to watch them bonding, laughing & talking about the latest show, episode, or challenge on the show that they are watching.
Individual devices can easily pull siblings (and friends) away from each other, as they play separate games in separate rooms, but designating one room/tv as the one that they can watch actually does the opposite for our kids. They are working together, talking about the same thing, etc… so I don’t mind it at all.
3. Use these Swap Chores for Screen Time cards. They work SO well!! Be consistent for three days & you will see a huge change. Trust me!
It’s also a great alternative to a chore chart, which I despise. They are more work for me than for the kids! Using these cards, they do their chores: sweep the floors, dust, clean up the living room, etc… and they are rewarded with some downtime.
I love that the Swap Chores for Screen Time Cards are easy to use. It is a very simple system. I can say: “Ok everyone – go grab 2 chore cards and then you are done and you can go play or you can use your earned time.” Each chore card has the number of screentime minutes in the top corner. The SWAP CHORES FOR SCREENTIME set also comes with blank cards. You can write things that encourage sibling play: “Play baseball out back with your brothers.” (I love this one because they end up playing for hours & when they come in, they can pick a show to watch together)
I‘ve also used it when our kids ask me for their electronics. Here’s an example:
CHILD: “Mom? Can I watch a King of Random YouTube video?”
ME: “Sure – you can watch one 20-minute episode after you’ve played for a little bit. Grab one of the playing screentime cards that I made up.”
Then, when they grab something like “build with LEGO blocks for 20 minutes” they are excited.
It is a win-win. while it’s not a chore, it is a great way to engage their mind & body. Plus, just like the baseball scenario, they end up playing for much longer than the designated time.
4. Be a good role model. Your child is looking to you to see what is acceptable. Limit your screentime, as well. This is hard for me, as my job IS online, but I just work while they are at school (or when they are asleep, like right now). 🙂
5. Have a technology-free week. To be honest, the kids had a hard time at first, but by the end, we all loved it (and the kids weren’t fighting or arguing anymore!)
This free printable is a perfect way to transition into summer, a holiday break or just everyday life if you want to limit your child’s screen time:
No Screen Time Until You have…
- You have read for 20 minutes. They can read it alone or with someone- I love to read with them. Just let them jump into the story (and I can almost guarantee that they will be reading for much more than twenty minutes. Our 8-year-old could get lost in a book for hours!)
. - You have written your paragraph of the day and have finished your math problem of the day. Every summer, each child gets a new writing journal and they write a paragraph each day. (Our younger children will just write a few sentences and our toddler will just draw a picture). I check it and date it. At the end of the summer, we look back on their progress together and we all love to see how far they have come!They also get a math problem of the day (I usually just print one from the internet, or we use some of my old math workbooks from when I taught elementary school).The reason? Children lose an average of 3 months of learning during the summer. I don’t want our children to “lose” time… I want them to “gain” it, so we do a little work in the summer, too. It makes going back to school so much easier, too!
. - You have checked your room to be sure it is clean (bed is made, lights are off, the fan is off, clothes are cleaned up, papers are off the floor)- this is simply because we are all part of the family and we all do our part to help out around the house.
. - You have done one of the following: played with toys, played with your brothers, practiced your instrument, built something or made something with our DIY creativity kit or whatever else you’ve found, that you can do that is creative for 30 minutes or more. ♥
. - You have finished at least one of your everyday responsibilities/chores. (ex: make the bed, put your clothes away)I have a second no-screentime until printable that I will send you, as well. If you would like both (free) No Screen Time Until Printables, click here. I will email them to you.
I hope this was helpful & gives you a great start into a new future! 🙂 Enjoy!
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Micaela says
I love the “No Screen Time Until…” poster. Thanks for sharing it! Any way it can be put into an editable format?
Becky (Your Modern Family) says
I just made it on a website called PicMonkey (so even I can’t edit it, unless I start over). Sorry!
Kris A Johnston says
We have 3 kids ages 11 and two that are age fourteen. Screen time has become a HUGE problem!
Your list is magnificent!
Julie says
These are great! Something to keep in mind when baby grows up and starts using a device with a screen.
Becky (Your Modern Family) says
🙂 Thanks, Julie!
Chris says
I absolutely LOVE this printable, my 9 year old son, not so much. 🙂
Becky (Your Modern Family) says
THank you!
Krista DeLisle says
Love this! I am printing this out right now for my boys for summer time they are horrible with not doing anything but playing games all day long this will be perfect! 🙂
Becky (Your Modern Family) says
Great 🙂
Shannon Baas says
One that mom used when we were kids(long before internet and cell phones) was no going outside unti you do your piano practice.
Peanuts & Thread says
I was just wondering today what limits I want to do on the technology stuff. During the school yr, the rule was none, only on the weekends. Thanks for this, I need limits and this is a good idea.
Grammar Friend says
What a great idea!
ala says
Amazing plan for the summer, my toddler is only 2 and I have noticed that if he watches too much time youtube videos he gets nervous and do not want to do anything. So, if I want him to stay attentive I have to begin the day with activities away from screen. Love your post, for sure will keep it for later.
Wendi Bushehry says
We had something called “Amish Summer days” No TV or screen time until the sun went down, we had a list of things that needed to be done, create or bake… it was fun but they did complain and that caused an hour late of screen time and then it was bed time!
Becky (Your Modern Family) says
Love it!!!
Dhanya says
I really needed this.. Very useful thing!
Becky (Your Modern Family) says
Thank you. I’m glad its helpful!
Yvonne S. Morentin (@Morentin1326) says
Screen time is not lazy time… there are many things that kids learn on screen, Rosetta Stone, building digial worlds, graphic art, RPG creating, coding, animating… so I totally agree, taking away screen time doesn’t make a child productive… i know plenty of adults who need less screen time. I get so sick of hearing people say, your kids should have less tech… lol, well unless you plan on living in the stone age, tech is here to stay… also if you want your children to become more diverse, then do it with them, but hey, I parent from the perspective, that each child is individual human with their own strengths and I tend to do whatever I can to encourage it. Art, computers, cinematography, science, anime, reading… the goal is to engage them not deter them. So , NO screen time doesn’t = lazy.
Becky (Your Modern Family) says
Completely agree – our kids could get caught up in screen time for hours at a time if I let them. I don’t think that it is lazy, I just want to be sure that they are doing OTHER things, as well. 🙂 Keep them well-rounded. They can’t TRULY learn to paint without holding a paintbrush and they can’t learn to really throw a ball without doing it… just keeping them ‘in the real world’.
Daryl says
Becky, I completely agree with you. There are so many interactive and education things to do on the iPad. There are even games that has the child do physical activities,sing along songs, putting jigsaw puzzles together…etc. If you want to home school your child, a computer will be a must. It’s important to have a balance, but “screen time” is very important too.
Raven says
I agree 100%….my autistic daughter learns so much from her tablet…screen time does not equal lazy!! Also….I’m not surprised your kids complain…I understand chores here and there and cleaning up rooms and toys, but why even have summer, if your not going to give your kids the time to unwind and enjoy summer??
Cathy Tessendorf says
Awesome ideas. My daughter (7y/o) goes to all year round school. I had her trained to do some school work during school time and school break since she was 4. Chores is under process. But the rest of this information is great.
Becky (Your Modern Family) says
Thanks!!
Phyllis says
You and I are on the same page! Parenting takes thought, time, and monitoring with love. That’s what makes a happy family. Whatever works for your family, “Parenting” is the answer.
Becky (Your Modern Family) says
🙂 Thanks!
Sandy says
I love your list, but I would add….DO SOMETHING THAT EXERCISES MORE OF YOUR BODY THAN JUST YOUR FINGERS. 🙂
Becky (Your Modern Family) says
🙂
Arthur W says
We have a “no screen time without explicit permission” which works well for us. We don’t spend much time with screens ourselves (my wife and I) so we don’t have a culture of screen time in the house.which makes it a lot easier I suppose.
MARGARET says
THANK YOU FOR POSTING “NO SCREEN-TIME.. “
Tea says
Hello My name is Tea and I am doing a project about screen time and I want your opinion on screentime.
Alicia says
Can you tell me more about your paragraph a day? Do you have a list of prompts, or is it more of a journal of what they have been up to?
Becky (Your Modern Family) says
I usually let them write whatever they want (more of a journal) , but you could always write a question for them. 🙂
Rachelle says
This is for the summertime right? What rules do u have for during the school year.
Mike Kazmier says
Oh my gosh, have you seen Kudoso yet? You’d think we read your blog and then built the perfect app to implement it 😂 Seriously though, Kudoso would be perfect for you Becky, we’d love to give it to you because there is obviously no better match than you and your household. Seriously… you have to check it out. Not only perfect for phones and tablets but for televisions and game consoles too!
Lisa Wehner says
It a brilliant idea. Thank you for sharing.
Sincerely,
Lisa Wehner
Lorraine says
Thank you. I just printed it
Kain says
My mother also created a rule for me once I was so little. That rule was “I can drink one glass of soda AFTER I drink a glass of milk”. Well, I’m not that tall, but right now I’m very healthy.