Should kids have more chores?
Should kids have more chores? Should they use a chore chart? I think that chores are so important to our kids’ sense of well-being. It gives them a sense of meaning in our family and teaches responsibility.
I have always wanted our kids to have age-appropriate chores, but sometimes we are just so busy that I’d love to just skip them! However, after reading this, I think I’ll find the time…
Harvard Study Proves Kids With Chores Became Independent Successful Adults
“Research from a well-known 75-year Harvard study examined what psychosocial variables and biological processes from earlier in life predict health and well-being later in life. Researchers found that children who were given chores became more independent adults.” ~VeryWell.com
They go onto say, “Kids feel competent when they do their chores. Whether they’re making their bed or they’re sweeping the floor, helping out around the house gives them a sense of accomplishment.
Doing chores also helps kids feel like they’re part of the team. Pitching in and helping family members is good for them and it encourages them to be good citizens.”
These things lead to success. Success in a job, success in raising a family, success in running a household… no matter the area, they learn that contribution and hard-work are needed to achieve their goal.
Are kids too busy for chores?
According to Boston Globe: “By at least some accounts, tasks, like doing the laundry or cleaning up after dinner, have fallen off kids’ to-do lists. In a Braun Research poll of 1,001 parents last year commissioned by Whirlpool, the appliance manufacturer, just 28 percent said they regularly assign chores to their kids, even though 82 percent said they grew up doing chores themselves.
It isn’t hard to imagine the reasons for this shift. Tightly packed schedules can leave kids little time for housework — which, unlike calculus assignments or soccer practice, probably won’t influence college admissions decisions.
Some parents may want to spare their children the drudgery they endured. Others may find that nagging kids to do their chores is more of a burden than they bargained for.”
Chores help kids become successful adults
“When young people have been expected to roll up their sleeves and pitch in, and to ask how they can contribute to the household, it leads to a mindset of pitching in in other settings, such as the workplace,” Lythcott-Haims said.
Not giving kids chores, she added, “deprives them of the satisfaction of applying their effort to a task and accomplishing it.”