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It is a hard decision and you are probably trying to find the answer.   You are asking yourself should my child get ear tubes?  I am going to share our story with you and hope that it leads you to the right decision for your family.
should my child get ear tubes

Each of our kids have had tubes at least once.  (We have four kids).   They each had over 30 ear infections before they turned two… after two- they hardly get any.
By six months, they all had tubes in their ears.  Our Doctor waited until each of our kids had 9 ear infections before having tubes.  We got to that number very quickly.

“According to the guideline, children who have very frequent ear infections and who also hold on to fluid – meaning their infections don’t clear up quickly – are candidates for ear tubes. However, the guideline says tubes should not be given to children who have frequent ear infections but who do not have fluid build-up – a major deviation from what typically happens in clinical practice.” – cnn.com

I breastfed each of our babies, in case you were wondering.  They stayed home with me until they are old enough for preschool.   We keep the house as clean as possible (lysol, cleaning products, etc…)  They still got ear infections.
Here is my pros & cons lists for tubes: 
PROS:
-You don’t have to give them oral antibiotics anymore. YAY!!!  After our daughter was hospitalized, at just eight months old, for having an allergic reaction to penicillin, I was excited to stop oral antibiotics.  You just do ear drops (5 drops, twice a day, for five days).
-You don’t have to take them into the Doctor to have them checked.  You can do the drops yourself whenever you suspect an ear infection.  (Our Doctor gave us this piece of advice.)
They still get them, but they are easier to manage.

– You don’t have to use ear plugs for water (most people don’t realize this) unless you are going to be swimming at four to six feet under the water (not likely for young children).

CONS:
  • They still get ear infections.  Our kids still had the same amount, they were just easier to treat.
  • They have to undergo surgery.  Our youngest son had trouble after waking up and breathing after he was given anesthesia.  He had to stay in the hospital for a full day past the surgery due to breathing issues (we have since learned that he has asthma).
  • The tubes fall out and you may need to have them replaced (we had to do this with our second son).  They normally will take their adenoids out during the second surgery, as well.
  • Sometimes you can’t get the drops in due to the build-up of drainage.  Our daughter has such terrible drainage with her ear infections that we can’t get the drops to go in past the mucus.
    We have had to do oral antibiotics several times, even with the tubes, when this happens (or the ENT will use a HUGE machine to suction the drainage out, while you hold your baby completely still, because “if your baby moves, even a little, we could puncture the ear drum”  (no pressure there, right?)
All in all, I am in favor of the tubes because it has saved us over 100 visits to the pediatrician or ENT (easily!)   While I do wish that I had another solution, this one works for us.. for now.

With only one child under two, right now,  I am hoping to be completely done with ear infections soon!  They seem to stop at two years of age in our house.

What is your take on ear infections and tubes?  Have you had success?  Are you thinking about getting the surgery for your child?   If you have a concern, just leave a comment & I will gladly help you, if I can.  If you have a comment, please leave it to help others trying to decide.

Thanks!!

Becky Mansfield

 

Hi there!

I’m Becky, a former elementary school teacher turned certified child development therapist and blogger. I work at home with my husband and together we are raising (and partially homeschooling) our four children in the Carolinas. I love diet coke, ice cream, and spending time with my family.

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  1. I’m very scared with the side effects, had any of your kids have had hearing loss temporary or permanent ? Before or after the tubes?

    1. Our oldest son’s tube never fell out, so he does have hearing loss in one ear. I wish I had known that they don’t always fall out, so I could have had it removed sooner (it was nine years later that it was removed, which is why he has the hearing loss- it’s a permanent hole.) Our other three children haven’t had any issues.