I am a play therapist with a background in elementary education & child development, so I like to use my education to help others by sharing tips. Today I was talking to a parent and she was concerned with her son’s development. He was about 10 months old. I knew that I wanted to help…
These are my favorite activities for those sweet little babies! I hope that these tips help you.
Are you ready for some fun and a few tips to make your baby smarter along the way? Between the ages of 6-12 months, you can expect your child to be learning a lot and really engaging in activities with you! Be creative in your play with your child!
According to the Urban Brain Institute: “Because experiences have such a great potential to affect brain development, children are especially vulnerable to persistent negative influences during this period [0-3 years]. On the other hand, these early years are a window of opportunity for parents, caregivers, and communities: positive early experiences have a huge effect on children’s chances for achievement, success, and happiness.
The fact that children are affected by their surroundings is too obvious to bear repeating. Child development specialists have produced decades of research showing that the environment of a child’s earliest years can have effects that last a lifetime.”
1- Use Music. Studies have always shown a link between music & cognitive development in babies. The greatest growth is from when they are still in the womb to two years of age, the time when listening-based learning is at its peak. Use a music immersion program like Nuryl, a customized music app designed to jump-start baby’s cognitive development during this time of brain growth. Rick Beato created this pregnant when his wife was pregnant with his son, Dylan. When Dylan was born, they continued to work with him.
When he was only three, Dylan had perfect pitch, which only 1 in 10,000 people have. His hearing is so acute that he can identify notes in even the most complex chords. At four, he was playing Bach on the piano. A t five, Dylan had memorized Pi to over 500 digits.) In fact, Dylan has achieved social media fame with more than 40 million collective views of his viral videos and he is now known as the “World’s Greatest Ear.”
One recent research study from the University of Washington’s Institute for Learning & Brain Sciences (I-LABS) adds weight to the claim that playing music makes babies smarter. The study shows that a series of play sessions with music improved baby’s brain processing of both music and new speech sounds.
2- Interact with your child. Use music as a jumping point to do this. Did you know that music has a link to advanced math skills, foreign language aptitude, memory, and focus, to stimulate a baby’s brain development starting at the 5th month of pregnancy to the second year?
3- By one year, your baby will start to prefer you and begin to cry when you leave. This separation anxiety is normal and healthy. Just tell your baby goodbye and that you will be back. Do not sneak out! This will only make your baby more anxious the next time that you are around since he/she won’t know if you are going to sneak out again. Just be cheerful when you leave, as if it is no big deal… “Bye, sweet girl! I’ll see you soon! Have a great day! Love you!” (Talk in the “Mother-ease” that I mentioned in THIS POST.)
With that being said, remember that it is a good thing to let your baby be with other people that will love & care for her/him. My mom watches our kids every week while I work (and many times during the week for other things!) My husband’s parents visit often (from six hours away), as well.
4- TEACHING: You can start showing your baby more books and flashcards. An example would be to teach him/her about the dog. Show your baby a picture of a dog and say “Look at the doggie! Ruff Ruff!”. Continue to do this. (Teaching body parts, animals, vehicles…) By 12 months, your baby will be able to point to the correct picture when you show him/her more than one and ask “which one is the dog?” What a great milestone!
5- Teach your baby new words. “Ma Ma”. Say it to your baby and they will try to repeat the word (or at least babble back to you). Don’t be too concerned if this does not happen yet, just keep working on it and in the meantime take a look at my post on Activities to help your child with their speech development. Your child should be saying single words (Mama, Dada) by a year, but every baby is different and this may vary a little. If you do not see this happening by 12 months, you may want to bring it to your pediatrician’s notice (just mention it at their 1-year appointment). Most doctors will not suggest speech therapy until close to two years of age.
6- A fun activity is to take their favorite small toy (rattle, doll) and let them WATCH YOU hide it under a little blanket. You might even want to leave a little peeking out. Your child will learn to find it now! By 12 months, your child will be able to uncover this and find that hidden treasure! (Remember that she/he will have to see you hiding it).
7- Read to your baby!* Babies love hearing the same book read over and over. When our oldest son was almost one, he had two favorites: Each Peach Pear Plum and Mickey’s Blanket. We would read these constantly and he loved them!
*Remember that reading a book does not mean that you have to “read” the book. You can use it as an opportunity to point to pictures, talk about things, pretend to eat the food in the books. Our kids have fun when we pretend to take the hats off of the characters and put them on our own heads, too! All of these things will benefit your baby in many ways! Take a “picture walk” (looking & talking about the pictures) with your child when you “read” these books!
8- Do new things – we have taken each of our kids on my parents ‘boat, even when they were young (they have to wear a life jacket, so be ready for a little fussing) but they have all enjoyed the boat once it gets moving.
(just found this picture… look how they’ve grown!)
9- Play the old favorites: This Little Piggy (see the words here), Pat-a-cake and peek-a-boo are all GREAT little songs to sing to your kids.
10- Do finger plays with your baby. A fingerplay is just a hand action combined with singing or spoken words to engage the child’s interest.
Here is an example: Five Little Monkeys
Five little monkeys (five fingers)
Jumping on the bed – (rest elbow on other hands, jump arm up and down)
One fell off, (hold up one finger, bring down as if falling)
And bumped his head! (hand to head)
Mama called the Doctor (use hand as telephone)
And the Doctor said (listening to “telephone”)
No more monkeys jumping on the bed (use finger and wave it back & forth to say “No No”)
Google “finger-plays for babies” for more great ideas! I’m sure you’ll get a ton!
11- Waving & throwing a kiss: You can do these things to your baby and your baby should try to imitate you. (Remember that it takes practice, so keep leading by example!)
12- Stacking blocks- get out those wooden blocks and let your baby examine them. Stack them up for your baby and let him/her knock them down while you both laugh about it! When your baby watches you and then begins to build with blocks, they are giving their learning planning and also helping their fine motor skills because it requires physical dexterity. Blocks are a great learning tool!
13- Get them moving- encourage movement! If your child is still crawling, add a few hurdles, like having them crawl over pillows. If they are learning to walk, give a little incentive- place a toy on one side of the coffee table and place your baby on the other side. Guide them along the side, teaching them how to cruise, walk to the other side. If your baby is even more advanced, practice walking up tiny inclines (maybe a driveway), holding their hands.
14- Getting dressed- At this age, our babies all enjoyed changing time. It is fun for them and it is just another chance to spend one on one time with your little one. Even putting on their diaper can be fun for them. Seriously- talk about things. “This wipe is cold!” “I am going to put on your diaper now. Can you help Mommy and step into your diaper?”
Remember that each child does things at their own time, but you can help your baby by spending “floor time” with him/her. Play with your child, talk to your child, read to your child…
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15- SPEND TIME WITH YOUR CHILD
Here we are with our four children… the most precious thing that we can give them is our time & attention.