Potty training at 18 months and up can be hard. Many potty training hurdles arise, but the ones that I hear most are: My child won’t poop on the potty and My child is regressing when we use underwear. These are so normal! Just when we think that we have it all figured out, one of these things happens.
Repeat this to yourself: This is normal. Other parents are jumping over these same hurdles. Honestly, it is for these reasons that when someone purchases my Potty Train in a Weekend book, they are added to a private Facebook group: I want them to be able to talk to each other (& me) and share ideas & suggestions. ou know that it will happen… just like everything, this is a phase that they are going through.
So, today let’s talk about the first one: when your child will only pee on the potty. After cleaning any worries about a medical reason for not wanting to poop on the potty, it is time to encourage your child to do just that: use the toilet without fear or hesitation.
Overcoming Potty Training Hurdles:
1- Tell me! I tell my children that they need to tell me. They can sign with sign language or just use their words, but they should be able to tell you that they have to go, especially if they are potty trained and are peeing on the potty regularly.
2- One trick that I heard was to have them wear a diaper on their little potty. It is a transition step that we don’t want to have to take, but it will get us to the end goal: going without a diaper. After a week, unstrap one side when your child does this. After another week, as if you can just place the diaper in the little potty.
3- Use a coffee filter and tell your child that it is like a diaper for the potty, then he/she can watch you easily empty it:
4- If they do pee or poop in their underwear, be sure to explain that it is not clean to go in your underwear. I always said that it was “yucky” to go in their pants.
5- Privacy. One of our kids would not go poop on the potty if anyone was in the room. Even right after the initial potty training weekend (the 3 days), no one was welcome in the bathroom when this child had to have a bowel movement. Give it a shot… Privacy might be all that your child needs.
6- SING!! I used to sing potty songs to our kids all of the time. Here’s another mom doing the same thing:
7- Put the training potty in front your child’s favorite movie or show on the TV. Place your naked child on the potty. (Yes, they are on the potty in front of the TV) Crazy, right? It’s ok… it is a one-time thing, but it helps to relax your child… and sometimes that is all that they need to use the potty.
For more tips for potty training 18 months & up check out my book, Potty Train in a Weekend.