Age appropriate chores for young children (and older children) are so important – with or without a chore chart! They help raise children that work hard and are not spoiled.
When everyone pitches in and does their part, they add their contributions to the family. It is a life skill that they will never lose (and you can teach it without using a hard-to-manage chore chart)
In fact, there was a Harvard study: Does doing a chore really benefit a child? It was a very interesting study. Of course, there is a huge benefit to children having the responsibility of helping out, especially when they are contributing to the family in this way.
Children need responsibility and these Age-Appropriate chores for kids by age are great for teaching responsibility & hard work.
While I gave up on our chore chart for kids, I found a solution that is so much better!
Why Do Kids Need To Help Out by Doing A chore (or several)?
- They help kids feel needed.
- They give them a feeling of importance.
- They help children learn responsibility
- They teach independence.
- They create a work ethic in our children that will help build that character that we want them to have.
- Helps to cut back on entitlement.
- Family chores help kids learn to work together.
- Children learn to help out the family, leaving more time to PLAY as a family. If your children learn to help now, you will have children that will be able to work later, allowing them the ability to work hard and keep a job or work hard to keep their marriage strong.
As hard as it is, do not do everything for your children! Let them do what they can. Remember the quote: fish for me & feed me for a day…. teach me to fish & feed me for a lifetime.
Children need to be taught how to do the chore first.
Before I begin with our list of age-appropriate chores for children, you need to know that your children were not born knowing how to do these tasks. You must walk them through it, teach them how you want it done.
Young children will be watching you in order to learn how to do the tasks correctly, but your older children may attempt it on their own.
I always suggest walking them through the household tasks before expecting them to do it well on their own. Do this with each chore until you have gone through them all (just do one or two a day).
Do I need a Chore Chart?
I gave up on chore charts a long time ago. Why? It is because I found chore charts for kids were more work than they were helpful. I had tried chore apps that let kids earn points, we tried a chore pad, we tried assigning chores by days of the week, etc…
When we were using a chore chart, I felt like I was constantly trying to keep rotating them, etc… I had tried finding great ideas on blog posts and in books, but nothing seemed to be what I was looking for.
Finally, one day I tossed our chore chart, chore chart templates, chore chart printable, and chore chart ideas. I made these chore cards instead and I’ll never go back to another chore chart again. The Chore Cards that we made were my best idea to date (I hope that doesn’t sound braggy… it’ just works so well!) and I’ve NEVER looked back.
How do the chore cards work better than a chore chart?
Our kids do a chore (or several) in exchange for screentime (and even if you don’t use the screen-time part, the chore cards alone are a life-changer!) The job listed on the card are household tasks or outdoor tasks that need to be done.
NOTE: In our house, if they do not want screen time, they still need to help out. They can use their screen time minutes for something else (whatever you decide).
How do the Cards work in place of a chore chart?
The cards are cut up and placed in a basket or jar.
The basket or jar is then placed somewhere so the kids can easily reach it (we keep ours in the pantry). When it is time to help out, they grab the basket themselves & bring it to the table. They close their eyes, reach in and pick from the basket. It is such a simple way to give out children’s chores & to maintain a routine.
Chore Amount for each age group:
This is split into different kid chores by age
- The 3 and 4-year-old will pick out one chore.
- A 5-6-year-old will pick out two cards
- A 7-8-year-old would pick out two to three cards
- Ages 9 & above get three cards from the basket & some few more difficult ones
Chore Ideas for tween & teens: Age Appropriate Chore List for 9 years to 12 years
I have our older sons pick several chore cards, as they are much older. You can also keep a basket for their chore cards, separate from the younger children.
I often hear the question: Do you have a chore list that 12-Year-old can follow? Do you have a chore list for what a 13-Year-old be doing? What tasks and jobs should a 14-Year-old be doing?
My Answer: Pretty much any chore, as long as they are responsible enough to do it safely. At this age, a child can handle doing the more difficult tasks and they deserve the confidence from you to try. Be sure to give them rules and show them exactly how to do it.
- Cleaning the garage
- Being assigned a bathroom to take care of
- Clean & detail vehicles inside & out
- Mowing the lawn (to be honest, our sons love to cut the grass)
- Clean glass items that may be too fragile for younger children
- Take the dog on a walk
- Scrubbing windows or floors
- Washing the car
- Yard work
- Ironing Clothes
- Cooking breakfast, making lunch, helping with dinner
- Setting the table without being reminded.
- Help a younger sibling with something.
- Babysitting a younger sibling.
- Changing their sheets
- Washing (or at least folding) laundry
- Do something to help you while they are learning the important skills to become an adult. (Example: making the grocery list for the week in order to learn to budget & plan.)
Does a daily responsibility count as a chore for kids?
In our house, our kids have daily responsibilities that are not “a chore”.
Examples of responsibilities include:
- Make bed
- Clean up after eating
- Put dirty clothes in the hamper
- Put clean clothes away
- Unload the dishwasher as a team
- Get dressed and brush your teeth without being asked.
- Keep your shoes in the shoe basket.
Then, they have extra chores that they can pick from the basket to earn Screen Time.
How Often Should Kids Do A Chore?
In our house, the kids’ responsibilities occur daily. However, if our kids want screentime, they will also have to find the time to do the task on the card to earn the screentime minutes.
This usually means that our kids are doing extra tasks to earn screentime daily (even if they save time for the weekend)
You can pick how often they do their chore(s): daily chore cards or weekends only? Maybe you choose for your children to or maybe they get more in the summer when they are out of school, etc…
You need to do whatever fits with you, your schedule & what you want for your family.
Remember, as I stated above, “make your bed”, “clean your room” and “empty the dishwasher” are not considered to a “CHORE” in our house.
They are daily responsibilities. They are not on this list, because they are habits. We do them daily & they just help to keep the house running smoothly.
Printable Chore Chart by Age:
Age grouping for chore ideas lets your child succeed at their specific task because it is based on their development. You’re welcome to use this chore list for kids (free printable) as a jumping off point to find good chores for kids.
This chore chart by age is simply to let you see some examples of the chore or jobs that your children are capable of, with a little practice and a demonstration by you.
Kids Chore Examples:
- Clean the shutters behind the kitchen table (their food gets on these from their sticky hands!) 🙂
- Clean out everything UNDER your bed.
- Take sheets off of the bed (for younger kids) weekly
- Take sheets off and replace with clean sheets (older kids) weekly
- Do your laundry (older kids)
- Take your dirty clothes to the laundry room (younger kids)
- Wipe bathroom sink and vanity in the main bathroom & their bathroom.
- Clear & clean the table after dinner
- Sweep hallway upstairs with broom & dustpan
- Put away ALL shoes in the garage by the door (we have 3 spots for shoes – they each have their own baskets at these places, so its easy to do & takes a second to put them away)
- Clean the outside of the toilet (bottom too) in those same bathrooms.
- Sweep the kitchen floors
- Sweep the hallway upstairs
- Clean out the van (bring in all garbage, coats, shoes…) – I do this same chore on 3 cards, so they could even both get them & do it together. It’s a big job.
- Empty all garbage in the bathrooms and their bedroom into one big garbage bag (getting garbage from all cans)
- Bring the garbage can up from the street after the garbage truck comes (it might be heavy to take it down while it is filled, but even our four-year-old can bring it up for us when it is empty… and we have a steep driveway).
- Clean the steps with a broom and then a damp rag (wooden steps). If you have carpet- have them use a damp sponge to get the dirt or pet hair if you have a pet. Have them use a small vacuum if you have one (the tiny kind for steps & small areas)
- Pick up everything on pantry floor to keep the pantry organized (Some of our organized art supplies are in there, so coloring books and crayons end up on the floors if we don’t stay on top of cleaning it.)
- Sweep the front porch
- Sweep the back porch
- Dust furniture in the room that mom or dad pick (they use a sock on their hands)
- Pick up toys (even if you didn’t make the mess!)
- Organize the mudroom bench (see make a mudroom bench to see how we made it) – they hang up coats, put shoes in the right baskets, hang up their backpacks under the correct name…
I made this chart for you.
Age Appropriate Chore Ideas for young children
Younger kids tasks are a little difficult, due to a lack of development in certain skills. However, they can still help out around the house. Here is some information that may help:
For a 3-year-old… When our 3-year old would pull out a chore card, but I would make up one since he couldn’t read it. I would say something like “Please pick up the blankets and pillows that are on the floor, and put them away.” or “Can you put the ice cream away after I scoop it for dessert?” Something easy and safe that he can do without help.
Remember, children like being feeling like they are contributing to the family. They like to feel like they have helped to keep everything going. They also learn quickly that if they help out, everyone has more time to play and relax together.
I hope that helped you to create some ideas for jobs for your kids. 🙂 I would LOVE to hear what jobs you have your children helping within your home! I am always revisiting our cards and editing them to their ages.
Click here to print this list (below) for kids, and I will e-mail you this free chart/list. ☺️
More posts you might like:
I know that it is as much work to get your kids to help you as it is to just do it yourself, but I want to encourage you to read this post – STOP doing that for your kids. Try to remember that you are raising adults.
Here is the way that we teach our kids to clean their rooms… without reminding them!
Are your kids using electronics more & helping out LESS? It is time to try something new (and I promise this works): Swap a Chore for Screen Time
(Plus- You no longer have to feel guilty AT ALL about allowing your kids to have some screen-time… they are earning it.)
RELATED POSTS THAT ARE HELPFUL:
- Learn why we gave up on Chore Charts and opted for the Chore Cards instead.
- No Screen Time Until (free printable)